Is it better to hold the garbage in head or let it go as it is….
This is the biggest challenge every one of us face on day to day basis..
We all struggle to express our feelings in proper way. There are mainly 3 factors that needs analysis:
- Age of other person
- Relationship with the person
- Mental condition of other person
At times we can’t confront even the other person is wrong and can’t argue when relationship is important. We all love to have peaceful life and have clear discussion. But, it matters if the other person is sound enough to argue or not.
We all have to attain that level of maturity to achieve our arugumental skills and to fine tune emotional quotient.
There is a saying that
“Emotionally Intelligent leaders know when to display emotions and when to delay emotions”.
It’s rightly said that display of emotion under any circumstances has to be very choosy and at times even we have to display an emotion thats really not triggered by our mental state but with the demands of situation.
Anybody can become angry-that is easy; but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the right purpose, and in the right way-that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy. – Aristotle